Monday, August 02, 2004
committment phobia

What do you do when men can't commit? You can jump ship at the first sign of panic and save yourself the heartache of attachment and endless tears, or you can just sit there on the turbulent seas of his indecisiveness hanging on for dear life and praying that you don't get tossed overboard before you find his emotional life persever....but hey! realistically speaking, WHY BOTHER???? I read that article, and I could almost agree, yeah, why really bother? I've come across two men who can't commit. Lucky me!!! huh.The first one, was claiming he's on crossroads and doesn't really know what to do with his life. So he broke up with me coz I was this fragile girl who may not be able to cope with him. (Men! I'm strong enough, had you given me the chance.) The second one, well he definitely knows what he wants to do with his life and I guess, I'm not part of it.(that's the saddest part) By wanting committment it is not like asking for marriage or a horse drawn carriage--or envisioning children. It's only a respect to the girl (you're screwing). hello!! it's just having a relationship until you both decide if it should end or continue. I don't know, guess I just wasn't that lucky finding my "white knight". yet....

Posted at 09:05 am by ~blossom~

kassy
September 3, 2004   02:19 PM PDT
 
i so want to say this post out loud.. WHY !!!! argh!!

"So he broke up with me coz I was this fragile girl who may not be able to cope with him" ---Likeweise..

whyyy...
daym men own issues. sue them! b.shit!

blog hoppin!
blossom
August 2, 2004   09:48 PM PDT
 
good for you and stay away from men who have a committment problem.
Hallie
August 2, 2004   01:35 PM PDT
 
i have read your committment entry but because i have not been there, i can't say i fully understand what you're going through :(.
 

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